Kids & Families
Let the children come to me
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Please smile warmly or offer a word of encouragement to parents and grandparents who have made the effort to bring their young, active children to Mass-we don't know what it took to make that happen today.
If you find yourself distracted, trust in the creative wisdom of the Holy Spirit. God can nourish our souls in ways we least expect... even through a wiggly, talkative child . Remember, if a baby's not cryin', the church is dyin'! |
Thank you for the blessing of your family's presence. RELAX! God put the wiggle in little ones; do not feel like you need to suppress it in God's house.
Try sitting toward the front - it is easier for little ones to see and hear what's going on.
Quietly EXPLAIN what is happening during Mass. SING the hymns. PRAY the responses, and LISTEN.
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Inside our building we have children's books to borrow in a basket near the fireplace (extra books are in the cabinet under the Holy Family picture), plus coloring sheets at the kiosk.
We also welcome any family in need of a "family bathroom" to use the restroom inside our Bridal Room. Feel free to use that area if needed for a private nursing area as well. We even have little step stools for children in each bathroom and near the drinking fountains. |
Kids ages 3+ can attend Gospel Time DURING the 10 AM Sunday Mass. This is a great opportunity to learn more about the Mass at their level.
To learn more about Gospel Time, check out our Gospel Time page. After the 10 AM Sunday Mass we also give out stickers for kids to fill up their sticker sheet. Once filled, they earn a faith-based fun prize (stickers, bracelets, etc.).
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1. Set the Foundation |
Have regular meals together as a
family. This may not seem important when your child is just a baby, but it's never too early to make this commitment. Whether macaroni and cheese is on the menu again or not, the point is to all sit down together for the ritual of eating and sharing stories of the day. As children get older and start to go off in different directions, the regular meals together ensures time to regroup and connect. Go to Mass and take everyone with you. Yes, it is challenging to make this weekly commitment (especially with little ones!) but once you get in the habit, it will become easier. Attending Mass is perhaps the single most important thing you do to help your children grow up Catholic. That hour can become cherished family time without outside distractions: simply resting, singing, praying and being together. |
2. Care for Yourself |
Refresh your own soul. As a parent you are likely incredibly busy and often stressed. Experiment with ways to steal some time for yourself to do something that refreshes your own soul:
• Take a few minutes to talk to God before getting out of bed or going to sleep at night.
• Journal. • Read the Bible, a spiritual book, or a blog. • Listen to inspiring music while you do the dishes or when driving. • Find a special place in nature you can escape to occasionally. • If your children grow up seeing you nurture your interior life, they will learn to as well. Prioritize your partner. It is common for young parents to put an intense focus on raising their young children, while putting their love relationship on life support. But one of the most important things you can do for your child is
to nurture your marriage and keep it healthy. It is possible to commit to regular dates and couple time if you make it a priority. Get the help you need. There is a lot of pressure in our society to be a perfect parent, but there is nothing Christian about trying to go it alone. It is easy to feel isolated and alone as a new parent, and even more so as a stay-at-home parent. Reach out if you need help of any kind, or help your partner get the help he or she needs. We encounter Christ when serving others and letting them serve us. |
3. Build Simple Rituals |
Pray before meals. Memorized prayers or informal ones are just fine. Even children who are still too young to speak will begin to recognize a ritual of holding hands around the table and singing a short grace. Once kids are toddlers they can join in by sharing one thing they are thankful for or one thing they want to pray for that day. For ideas for simple mealtime prayers with young children, see: GrowingUpCatholic.com/mealtime
Bless your child each day. A natural time to do this is when you are rocking your child to sleep or tucking him or her in bed at night. It can be as simple as saying "Good night. I love you and God loves you" when you hug and kiss them. It might involve helping them remember all the people they encountered that day who love them ("Mommy loves you, Daddy loves you, Sissy loves you, and God and Mary and Jesus and Joseph love you.") Find more ideas for bedtime prayer routines at: GrowingUpCatholic.corn/bedtime |